Mr. February

Real Name: Dave

From: Pasadena

Date Location: Buffalo Wild Wings @ Annapolis

Background info: Dave dated an alcoholic for 4 years and got tired of being the father figure in her life so he got out of the relationship.  His brother died a ways back due to a heart condition and his mother died as well for different reasons.  He is close with his father and sister in law (brother's widow).  He doesn't have kids of his own and was never married. 

Date Deets (aka Details): Met at BWW. Ate some food, watched some football. Good conversation. I paid for my part of the meal. We left the date saying "we will get in touch and hang out again".  The next day, I reached out to him to see if he was interested in another date. He agreed.

Second Date Deets: We went early Sunday morning bowling at Greenway. He paid for coffee and fries. He also paid for bowling. Fun time. He left the date asking what I was doing the following weekend. I told him nothing was scheduled and he then said he would look into going to a "magic show/bar" type thing for our next date.

Post Second Date Status: The next day (Monday), he said he was sick with the flu. He was sick and didn't go to work Mon-Wed. When I asked what he was doing that weekend, he said he was recuperating and resting from being sick. After Wednesday of that week, neither of us reached out to the other one.


Pros: Nice enough guy. Easy to hold a conversation with. Paid for second date.

Cons: He did not offer to pay for date 1. No physical attraction but had "grow on you" potential.  Not very assertive. Didn't "take charge" until he mentioned he would set up the third date which never happened. I had to reach out to him to see if he was interested in second date.   

  Update: Within the past couple of weeks (February) I noticed he was active on the dating website where I had originally met him and so I sent him a message asking him how the "search" was going. He responded with there is no search because he is not into Brazilian women, hinting that the only females out there are foreigners. No other communication happened since then.